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Why Do Black People Not Tip?
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AndWhenHeFalleth


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Quote: from babygurl 2008 at 12:57 pm on Aug. 19, 2008

My father whose a Black men he tips all the time, thats stupid, way to start a new stereotype

It isn't a new stereotype.  It is an old one, and he simply looked into it.  He also made it clear that this is a collective issue, but does not mean that every single black person will stiff you.  Read.

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This post is kinda silly, dude.

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Quote: from AndWhenHeFalleth at 12:29 pm on Aug. 19, 2008

Quote: from babygurl 2008 at 12:57 pm on Aug. 19, 2008

My father whose a Black men he tips all the time, thats stupid, way to start a new stereotype

It isn't a new stereotype. It is an old one, and he simply looked into it. He also made it clear that this is a collective issue, but does not mean that every single black person will stiff you. Read.


I read what i needed to read, so fuck you

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wtf

they made a survey on tipping

are you fucking serious

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Quote: from babygurl 2008 at 3:57 pm on Aug. 19, 2008

Quote: from AndWhenHeFalleth at 12:29 pm on Aug. 19, 2008

Quote: from babygurl 2008 at 12:57 pm on Aug. 19, 2008

My father whose a Black men he tips all the time, thats stupid, way to start a new stereotype
 
 It isn't a new stereotype.  It is an old one, and he simply looked into it.  He also made it clear that this is a collective issue, but does not mean that every single black person will stiff you.  Read.

 
I read what i needed to read, so fuck you



Obviously not.

Right back at ya, sweetie.

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Quote: from AndWhenHeFalleth at 12:59 pm on Aug. 19, 2008

Quote: from babygurl 2008 at 3:57 pm on Aug. 19, 2008

Quote: from AndWhenHeFalleth at 12:29 pm on Aug. 19, 2008

Quote: from babygurl 2008 at 12:57 pm on Aug. 19, 2008

My father whose a Black men he tips all the time, thats stupid, way to start a new stereotype

  It isn't a new stereotype. It is an old one, and he simply looked into it. He also made it clear that this is a collective issue, but does not mean that every single black person will stiff you. Read.

 

 
 I read what i needed to read, so fuck you



Obviously not.

Right back at ya, sweetie.


Lmao, that was a good one, Imma use that one day

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Quote: from Springs at 12:59 pm on Aug. 19, 2008

wtf

they made a survey on tipping

are you fucking serious



it's........silly.

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Quote: from Headst0ck at 1:05 pm on Aug. 19, 2008

Quote: from Springs at 12:59 pm on Aug. 19, 2008

wtf  

 they made a survey on tipping  

 are you fucking serious


 
it's........silly.


you learn a new stereotype every day

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Quote: from Springs at 1:09 pm on Aug. 1  

 
 it's........silly.you learn a new stereotype every day


Lol, true, but this other girl goes its not a new stereotype it been their

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Quote: from babygurl 2008 at 1:11 pm on Aug. 19, 2008

Quote: from Springs at 1:09 pm on Aug. 1

   
  it's........silly.you learn a new stereotype every day

 
Lol, true, but this other girl goes its not a new stereotype it been their


I learned it today!

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Quote: from Springs at 1:13 pm on Aug. 19, 2008

Quote: from babygurl 2008 at 1:11 pm on Aug. 19, 2008

Quote: from Springs at 1:09 pm on Aug. 1    

     
  it's........silly.you learn a new stereotype every day  

 
 Lol, true, but this other girl goes its not a new stereotype it been their


I learned it today!

LOL, me too

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Bud, why do you have this hatred for blacks? EVERY SINGLE TOPIC you create is something to do with how blacks are inferior in one way or another. We get it, you're a closet racist. You can come out now.

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Quote: from ButtSechs69 at 5:01 pm on Aug. 19, 2008

Bud, why do you have this hatred for blacks? EVERY SINGLE TOPIC you create is something to do with how blacks are inferior in one way or another. We get it, you're a closet racist. You can come out now.

This topic isn't in any way racist.  What the hell?


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Wow man you should consider working for the government census bureau seriously.  

How many hours did you spend doing all that?

Anyway here's my thinking: its culture.

I mean from the charts you gave it looks like things were consistent pretty much across all incomes for all races.

I gotta say in my family we used to be a bit confused about the pizza delivery tipping deal for the longest time (although Im the one my mom asks to calculate the tip and she always generous when we dine out.) In my hood most ppl dont tip very much but my mom knows that she likes it when she gets tips from the customers when she does extra work so she makes sure she gives a good tip to servers in return.  

The deal about the delivery thing is that they already charge you more for the delivery so some ppl are confused about whether that included the driver's tip or not. So I know some ppl might be confused about it.

The fact that the credit card has an extra tip line doesn't mean everything.  

About the stereotype though I think its culture.  

In latin american countries and culture tipping is usually expected so ppl know about it. We tip according to how much money we can afford and if we have coupons or deals we actually tip more because we have more left over to give out. Thats why thers more variation.

In the Asian culture they calculate the percent and they stick to that unless somebody really did something that strikes them. Thats why theres not a lot variation for them.

In white American culture they tip according to service quality and other stuff. I know my mom's friend who's white tips sometimes a lot sometimes a little but the way she does is always abit of a mystery for me like how she grades the waiter on what criteria.  

I can't answer for blacks because im not in their head but I think they feel they already paid enough for the food and like you said they feel the driver is PART of the same company so it like they're paying the company more. I don't say all blacks do that. But its possible thats whats going on.  

But I dont think its right at all to say "they dont care". its more that they feel the employee is already part of the same company.

When you do the grouping on behavior stuff like tipping you should think that alot of the stuff we talk about is culture NOT race.  

Post edited at 8:26 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 by jakelong

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Quote: from whoisabs at 11:56 am on Aug. 19, 2008

Ah, but thanks to things such as self-segregation and 'blackness' many blacks DO live in a society where tipping is not the norm.
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Did Bud tell YOU that the blacks he talked about were self segreagated?

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