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Your Top 10 Turn-Ons/Turn-offs
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punk player


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TURN_ONS

1: Medium breasts - not too big, not too small
2: Smarts - dont be a idiot
3: Active/Sporty - i love chicks that play basketball
4: Healthy - dont smoke or do drugs
5: Height - dont be taller than me, its uncomfortable
6: Msuic - If you like country, your gone.  They gotta dig rap and rock or really love one of them.
7: Thin - I like them thin too, but with a bit of cuhion ^_^
8: Movies - I love goin to movies and if you cant stand an action or sci-fi flic on occasion, we're through.  sounds harsh, but come on, you gotta like Lord of the Rings
9: Hair - Short hair and super-long haird bug me, i like it somewhat longer than should-length
10: Positive outlook on theirself.  I hate people taht feel sorry for theimselves

TURN_OFFS

1: Druggies
2: Fat
3: Annoying geeky girls
4: Liars
5: Bad fashion sense
6: Bad breath
7: Snobs
8: Girls that wear granny-panties
9: Slutty, easy girls, i want a real relationship, a virgin (which are few and far between now days)
10: Being hairier than me is unacceptable, and i'm a hairy guy. For God sakes, shave them legs!

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RBRecov18


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wow... i gotta tell ya that's a great list.  anyone who says it's too picky probably is letting themselves settle for less than what they deserve.  everyone's picky to a point.  i know i am.  my list is actually basically the same, minus the stuff that applies to chicks only (breast size...and i would want a bi guy) and such.

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Malkariss


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 Good list, but when you're me you have to take what you can get.  I'm going into the 8th grade and STILL havn't had a gf yet...                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              

(Edited by Malkariss at 1:23 pm on July 20, 2004)

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TheDarkOne


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Most people don't want to date sluts, kinda pointless as 9/10 of them just cheat on you anyway

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smellygeekbreath


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wait a minute... i am that girl... the list... that's me.... oh my god.

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x3lindsayx3


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so no one these days wants normal girls? what about us plain girls? 5'3.. blue eyes... brown hair... small chest... do manners mean anything any more? what about a 15 year whos still a virgin? and has morals? and values? and goals? and wants to do something with her life? who doesnt let guys push her around? but likes to cuddle up and be sweet talked...and loved.... is there any hope for us?

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lilgurlmurphy


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*Top 10 Turn Ons*
1. Really gentle touches.
2. Soft kisses.
3. Kisses on the neck, and stomach.
4. A little breeze...
5. Making out.
6. Sweet touches.
7. "Melting" looks.
8. Sweet words.
9. Kissing... touching... etc.
10. ORGASM!!!
*Top 10 Turn Offs*
1. Belching, farting, etc.
2. Bad breath.
3. Weird noises.
4. Stinky feet.
5. Stinky...
6. Weird shit.
7. Weird words.
8. Stupid gestures.
9. LOTS of tongue.
10. Stuff like that... yuck.


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tivani


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type your post here turn offs
1.guys who smoke den come back and kiss u yuck
2.guys who flirt with ada girls while yo there,rude
3.cheap guys.the ones who take u on a date then u have to pay for the meals cz he says he forgt his wallet,yea rite
4.guys who cheat then say u made me do it cz u didnt wanna give me wat i wanted
5.stupid pick up lines
TURN ONS
1.guy who is sweet,kind and honest
2.a guy who gives me butterflies cz he can treat me gud
3.a guy who can satify me in and out of bed
4.guy who compliments me but also tells me the truth wen i ask him if these jeans make me look fat
5.and a guy who has a great smile  and is funny

WOW
i would kill for a guy like that oh wait i have one
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flirtygoddess2003


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Turn On's:
1. Gorgeous Eyes
2. Built body (nice arms too, muscley arms are a huge turn on for me)
3. Sweet Personality
4. Bad boy side
5. Sarcastic in a cute way
6. Trustworthy
7. Intelligent
8. Athletic
9. Know's his prioritys
10. Responsible

Turn Off's

1. Assholes
2. Guys who act like they have no feelings
3. Guys who are all about sex
4. Guys who tell you what you want
5. Not being respectable
6. Shy to the point they can't even carry a converstation
7. Players
8. Geeks, call me what you want but i am not into playing pokemon cards during class or at all.
9. Short guys like mega short. 5 feet tall short
10. Liars!!!

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ChineseBabee


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Turn ons:
1. Confidence.  So hot when a guy is not afraid of what others think of him.  He already knows he's good enough.
2. Short hair, the darker the better.  Not too short.  Preferably, gelled, spiky-ish.
3. Athletic.  Even better if they do the same thing (like snowboarding) or tries to teach me what they do, which is always fun.
4. Smart - awesome trait.  Hopefully reads a lot of books too.  I like reading, I like men who read. *shrug*
5. Abs - just attracted to guys that have abs.  Doesn't have to be rock hard.  But toned for sure.
6. Funny - how can anyone resist a person who can make you laugh when you're feeling your worst =)
7. Has a goal - its fine if you dunno what you wanna do with your life, but don't act like you don't care either.  I'm not a golddigger but I'm pretty ambitious and I'd want someone else who was.
8. Sweet - Its the little things that count here.  Like opening doors for you, leaning in and telling you that you smell good, etc.
9. Lets you know what's up - alot of people assume that only girls play games.  But I've been there with a guy who didn't know how to react and didn't want to be vulnerable.  Hence the games began.  Well if you can't be straight-forward, you're definately going to be dropped like a hot potato.
10. Tall, I'm pretty tall, so they gotta be taller, its nice when I can fit right under their chin.

Turn offs:
1. Clingy! Definately number 1.  Just because I like you, I cannot spend 24/7 with you.  Don't expect me too.  I have other guy friends, deal.
2. Obese - goes along with athletic and the abs thing.  Doesn't matter as much but its still a turn-off.
3. No manners - self-explanatory
4. No tact - Be straight-forward, not cruel.
5. No hobbies ands stuff outside school.  I really admire those who do good in school and get good grades, but that can't be the only thing you do.  
6. Doesn't want to start anyhting new.  
7. When he's a sweetie around you, but is a jerk when his boys are around.
8. No manners. - self explanatory
9. Too shy, doesn't talk much.  Doesn't do much decision making.
10. Puts down others.  It does not impress me at all when people act like they're so much better and insult others.  


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fuzzypinkslippers


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I wish you luck, man.

But at least you have standards and priorities.  Gotta give you that.


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Overmind

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Basically anyone who is normal as long as they are shorter than me, they aren't perfectly beautiful(I would feel inferior), they are about as smart as me, and have some kind of morals.

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[To the thread-starter! I'm liking that list! It gives those of us with brains and not the biggest boobs in the world a glimmer of hope that someday someone will want us not in spite of us having an opinion and not being too easy, but because of it.]

Oh, and here's my list. Not sure if this is the most advisable post to be my first reply, but we've all got to start somewhere, so I might as well reveal a little about myself:

Turn-Ons:

1) A look. I don't mean in a style way. I mean in a piercing-gaze sort of a way. The whole "I don't want to take my eyes off you" look.

2) A sense of humour. I may know what's important in life, but it's equally important to me to have a good laugh. So, please guys, laugh at yourselves a little. Hell, laugh at me a little, even. And I don't mean walk around telling jokes, it's all about wit, sarcasm, and good-natured teasing.

3) Music. I don't need a rockstar, although the ability to play an instrument, preferably a guitar, is a bonus. I just need someone who'll appreciate my need to have music playing during 70% of my life. And if you've heard of all the soft-rock bands from the other side of the pond that I'm into, then I know I'm onto a good thing.

4) Cooking. I don't need a chef, but I'm not very skilled in the kitchen myself. So I'm not going to be running around cooking a roast for you every Sunday. I can manage the basics, and if you can too, great. Means we don't have to go out all the time and can enjoy nights in without the aid of a pizza box.

5) Good hair. My only appearance-themed one. I'm serious. Hair is probably the first thing I notice about a guy, followed by eyes (though most people have nice eyes unless they're Thom Yorke). Don't gel too much, and don't shave it all off. Colour's not important.

Turn-Offs:

1) Playing 'hard to get'. You may find it amazingly amusing not to call me for three days if you said you'd call me the next day, but it irritates the hell out of me. I'm not needy - I can go a few days - but stick to your promises, or don't make them. Simple.

2) Lying. I'm probably one of the most up-front and honest people out there. What you see is what you get, and I'm not going to pretend to like something I don't just to impress you, and I'd never cheat on you. I expect the same decency in return. I'm more than aware how lies can damage a relationship, and trust me, it's better to be honest even if it seems more difficult at the time.

3) Coming on too strong. Rather than making me jump for joy, confessions of undying love (or lust) too early on make me start questioning myself. Rather than going weak at the knees, I'll panic that you're kidding around. So save it for when the actions meet the words.

4) Smoking. I can cope with it in moderation, if it's a really special guy. It's a stupid habit, however, and has many bad associations. Please don't do it in front of me, but don't hide it from me, either.

5) Gossip. By all means, talk to your friends about our relationship, but don't give the gory details to mutual friends. It'll only be embarrassing when they repeat it in front of either of us.


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charmlesscocolicious


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hahahahahaha good luck with that one

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As for alot of the turnoffs, I don't know why so many guys and girls insist on doing these things. Everyone knows that being clingy is unappealing, as is lying, cheating and stealing, but yet some people persist....



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